Overcoming effects of extra-marital relationship on marital relations
Heena and Bhashkar
Background of client
Heena and Bhashkar are a couple married for 16 years with good educational and financial background. Both have good options in career, but Heena stepped back to take care of the home and kids and also Bhashkar’s dreams.
Overview of the issue
Heena sensed a distance when she was out for fulfilling her dream for some time. When she returned, she tried to find out and found out that Bhashkar had started an affair with a girl, much younger to his age. There were lot of fights and disturbance in the household work. Heena felt that her whole world is devastated.
Our involvement
She contacted our institute- Sambandhah on Google. Individual sessions were taken by the counsellor with both of them, in which, Heena confessed of not having taken any care of the relationship, as she felt everything is going on well. On the other hand, Bhashkar had some points unanswered from Heena since all these years. Bhashkar did not know when he was attracted to other girl and when he crossed the limits. He realized and felt guilty of the same. He also confessed that it is a blunder and he loved Heena very much. Heena also had the love for Bhashkar. When this was sorted out, they both were given joint sessions to come out of this trauma and work on their relationship afresh.
End result
Both gained their mental stability after working on their relationship as guided by the Counsellor. They started to communicate better, understand the views of each other and also take care of the partner in the way the partner wanted. Thinking that the phase was a nightmare, they are going towards building a more strong relationship for better.