Where is our focus : ‘Wedding’ or ‘Marriage’

Once a match is found and confirmed, a whirlwind of preparations ensues to orchestrate flawlessly executed ceremonies. Countless pre-wedding events and the main wedding function are meticulously planned, involving significant time, effort, and financial resources. Every detail is thoughtfully arranged, the preparations extending until the culmination of the wedding day. As the much-anticipated day arrives and the festivities conclude, the memories are etched into photograph albums.

However, it’s crucial to shift focus to the essence beyond the wedding day—marriage itself. The wedding, a singular event, is beautifully captured in photographs, but the true journey lies ahead, spanning years and leaving impressions not in photo albums, but in the recesses of the mind. Often, the commitment to preparing for this journey is overshadowed by the emphasis placed on the wedding day. This imbalance frequently results in an accumulation of memories—often skewed toward negative experiences—within the minds of the couple. These memories, unlike those preserved in albums, have a tendency to multiply and manifest to an extent where the couple might find themselves feeling trapped within the institution of marriage.

It is now imperative to address this imbalance by providing the couple with an education on the intricacies of marriage. The spotlight should shift from the grandeur of the wedding to the nuanced and profound journey that is marriage. By fostering a deeper understanding of this lifelong commitment, couples can pave the way for a more balanced and fulfilling marital journey.